Thursday, April 24, 2008
I miss my ex :(
yep.. I miss talking to him in a friendly manner, not more than that but yeah i do miss u.... don't misunderstand me... not u my recent, my other ex :P -.-
Monday, April 7, 2008
My current thought about marriage
Marriage....
I guess I'm currently allergic to the thoughts of it... it's not I don't want to get married, which honestly I do, but somewhere in the long run... it's just... I doubt the institution of marriage itself.
More than common we heard that even after taking vow in front of god (yeah on the contrary... I do believe in God! thought sometimes I come across as a non believer! hah!!!... :P) people still have the tendency to have affairs... I mean how could you do that...?!?! you have taken vow in front of god, to cherish, love n respect, yada blah! but still you have the thoughts of hurting your other half by having affairs..! not only adultery is a b**** ah I meant big sin! BIG BIG one! but also, have you forgot about that f***in vow you made in front of god, your relatives, her/his relatives and parents as well? or or maybe people should engrave their vows and hang it in their bedroom wall, so next time you wake up in your room, you'lll remember about that freaking vow you yourself made!
Ok, the next thing why i doubt the institution of marriage is 'cause sometimes (yeap sometimes, not most of the time or always...! duh!) I think soulmate of your other half is only meant for a certain period of time, not a lifetime guarantee that everyone think it comes with... I mean seriously, how else could you explain a couple who was madly in love when they 1st got married to becoming within each others throat in the next say... years to come...?
Last, I've also heard the say that when a man gets married its the end of their elementary or school years or whatever blah they said and WELCOME to reality... I mean for the love of god, seriously! what about women... I personally think, being attached to someone that is sometimes (see! I'm trying to be politically correct here, sometimes not most of the times cuz it doesn't come in all cases) a burden to her or even boss you around even though today is the modern days where emancipation isn't a taboo or an alien word that people haven't heard of, or or when the men underestimates the women just because she choses to become a housewife or domestic wife, or whatever term that is and take care of their children and yet men tends to not be thankful that their children (yes their own f***in blood) is being treated well by their wife not by a nanny who might have a double face(sweet when ur around but abuses your children! bah! -.-) has the nerve to have affairs... (u might wonder y the hell do i have problems with affairs, the answer is, its just a freaking random thought for god sake! but it's f***in true!) and disregard their wife emotionally, mentally and physically ( u might caught an STD due to your extramarital activities and yet your infecting your innocent wife, damn men!) yet still they have the nerve to say that marriage is a ticket to reality... well guess what men out there... its the freaking same thing happening to us! so stopp being a selfish, egocentric creature in earth and try to be a lil bit considerate....!
I guess I'm currently allergic to the thoughts of it... it's not I don't want to get married, which honestly I do, but somewhere in the long run... it's just... I doubt the institution of marriage itself.
More than common we heard that even after taking vow in front of god (yeah on the contrary... I do believe in God! thought sometimes I come across as a non believer! hah!!!... :P) people still have the tendency to have affairs... I mean how could you do that...?!?! you have taken vow in front of god, to cherish, love n respect, yada blah! but still you have the thoughts of hurting your other half by having affairs..! not only adultery is a b**** ah I meant big sin! BIG BIG one! but also, have you forgot about that f***in vow you made in front of god, your relatives, her/his relatives and parents as well? or or maybe people should engrave their vows and hang it in their bedroom wall, so next time you wake up in your room, you'lll remember about that freaking vow you yourself made!
Ok, the next thing why i doubt the institution of marriage is 'cause sometimes (yeap sometimes, not most of the time or always...! duh!) I think soulmate of your other half is only meant for a certain period of time, not a lifetime guarantee that everyone think it comes with... I mean seriously, how else could you explain a couple who was madly in love when they 1st got married to becoming within each others throat in the next say... years to come...?
Last, I've also heard the say that when a man gets married its the end of their elementary or school years or whatever blah they said and WELCOME to reality... I mean for the love of god, seriously! what about women... I personally think, being attached to someone that is sometimes (see! I'm trying to be politically correct here, sometimes not most of the times cuz it doesn't come in all cases) a burden to her or even boss you around even though today is the modern days where emancipation isn't a taboo or an alien word that people haven't heard of, or or when the men underestimates the women just because she choses to become a housewife or domestic wife, or whatever term that is and take care of their children and yet men tends to not be thankful that their children (yes their own f***in blood) is being treated well by their wife not by a nanny who might have a double face(sweet when ur around but abuses your children! bah! -.-) has the nerve to have affairs... (u might wonder y the hell do i have problems with affairs, the answer is, its just a freaking random thought for god sake! but it's f***in true!) and disregard their wife emotionally, mentally and physically ( u might caught an STD due to your extramarital activities and yet your infecting your innocent wife, damn men!) yet still they have the nerve to say that marriage is a ticket to reality... well guess what men out there... its the freaking same thing happening to us! so stopp being a selfish, egocentric creature in earth and try to be a lil bit considerate....!
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